Horrible ending to what-was-a-great-day.

Im upset and angry, and im feeling depressed.

Firstly, Mr. Got-the-hots was all friendly when I bumped into him during my weekly duties. Later, he turned cold and walked past me. After that, he talked to my friend but left quickly before I could catch him. He blows hot and cold. Guess what? Im pretty mad.

Next, my cousin comes to work and accused me of leaving the building keys in one of the rooms. Oh! Horrors! I replied that Henry went up there later too, so it is probably his fault, but I gave her an uncertain look because I wanted to confirm that it was either him or I! She then started complaining and complaining and complaining about how she always find trouble when she starts working. Fine. Next, she said that someone didnt check the grad lab. Fine. It was Henry's and me's fault. But i was doing my weekly checklist during that time and I was busy that it slipped off my mind.

Well, she started complaining again and later she added that sometimes she forgot too, but she kept speaking to me in that accusing tone that I just wanted to scream! Hello! No one is perfect, and I dont complain whenever she does something wrong do I? No. Freaking No. Because I accept her the way she is.

Her fill-in partner came in 22 mins late when the grace period was 5 mins. She complained again. 22 mins is a long time and she has the right to say something about it. But, she complained and complained and complained. Her fill-in partner called her a "Hissy fit". I believed that was a great word to describe her actions.

In between her complains and Our Great Many Mistakes, Fill-in partner and I were bantering around with a little flirting. She called us "childish" coz it isnt her way of communicating.

Well, then learn! Or cut off the complaining and accusing. I learned long ago not to complain unless I was really stressed out or nervous. It gets me talking about all the bad stuff that is going on in my life. But normally, I dont do that.

So my cousin had a little rough time when she went to work. Fine. I accept that. Unlucky her.

Good things about her: sensitive, caring, generous, helpful, independent. (All that im not)
Bad things: Stubborn. (Totally opp mine)

Comments: I dont like to diss my cousin but she is what she is and overall, except for her dictatorship and stubborness to accept different kinds of people, she is a great person and has helped me in a lot of situations without fail, sometimes even when I didnt ask for it.